Episode 64: Ask Me Anything: Perimenopause, Weight Loss, and Family Meals

Ever feel like your thoughts are actively working against your midlife and perimenopause health goals? Like, the moment you decide to try something new, your brain slams the brakes on with excuses like, “That’s too hard,” “I don’t have time,” or the classic, “My family will never eat that”? You are absolutely not alone!

In my first-ever Ask Me Anything episode of The Family Fork, I tackle the questions that are truly keeping busy, midlife moms stuck.

These are the real, raw struggles that pop up when you’re navigating perimenopause, weight loss, and the daily chaos of family life. We’re diving deep into the mindset traps that lead to overwhelm and overthinking, and I’m handing you the exact framework I teach my clients to break free.

Spoiler Alert: It’s not about being more disciplined or motivated.

It’s about training your brain to stop letting difficult feelings (like frustration and defeat) give you permission to do nothing at all. We’re talking about everything from the dinner dilemma—how to eat anti-inflammatory when your family demands predictable meals—to overcoming major setbacks like injuries or health complications.

I promise you, there are simple, effective ways to move forward, even when you feel totally overwhelmed, your family is pushing back, or life has thrown you an unexpected curveball (like a shoulder injury or, yep, even breast cancer). You deserve to feel strong, healthy, and confident, and it all starts with noticing the stories your brain is telling you and choosing to push forward anyway. Let’s figure this out together!

What we cover in this episode:

🥑 The Dinner Dilemma Solved: How to eat the anti-inflammatory meals you need for perimenopause health while keeping your family (and your partner!) happy, without cooking separate dinners. (It’s not your job to make everyone happy, but you can definitely compromise!)

🥑 The Power of Your Thoughts: Why letting yourself feel frustrated or defeated leads to giving up on your goals, and how that resentment builds toward your family.

🥑 The Overwhelm Trap: Why overwhelm and overthinking are simply the avoidance of feelings (like guilt, embarrassment, or disappointment), and how your brain uses this trap to give you permission to do nothing.

🥑 The Curiosity Cure: The simple, powerful two-step framework for getting unstuck: first, Notice the thoughts that stop you, and second, Get Curious to start collecting data and moving forward (risk-free!).

🥑 Bouncing Back from Setbacks: My personal story of navigating breast cancer and a double mastectomy and the exact mental shift you need to make to stop getting stuck in “survival mode” when life throws you an injury or major complication.

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