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Ashley Malik is a women's weight loss coach, podcaster, mom of two, and a grandma.
She helps busy, midlife moms lose weight in perimenopause, and start living a life they love.
You’ve heard the term “anti-inflammatory diet,” but maybe you’re feeling like a beginner, and you’re not sure what it actually means.
If you’re like most women, you picture boring salads, endless meal prep, and giving up all the foods you love. With so much information out there, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed, and honestly, to give up before you even start.
But what if I told you that an anti-inflammatory lifestyle is the most powerful tool for improving your health—especially as a busy midlife mom?
I know you’re struggling, and you’re looking for answers. Believe me, I get it, and I’ve been there.
In my late 30s, I was plagued by fatigue, brain fog, and joint pain, and I couldn’t lose weight no matter what I tried. It wasn’t until I discovered the power of anti-inflammatory nutrition that I finally started to heal my body from the inside out, and eventually lost 65 pounds.
Now, I’m on a mission to help other women find clarity, confidence, and lasting results without the stress or deprivation that typically come with new approaches to nutrition.
First, let’s get clear on what we’re actually talking about.
Medically speaking, inflammation isn’t always a bad thing. Like when you get a cut or sprain your ankle, and it swells up—inflammation is your body’s natural response to protect and heal itself. But when inflammation becomes chronic and happens inside your body (systemically), it can create frustrating, and even damaging, health issues.
Chronic inflammation often starts in your gut, which is home to a delicate balance of good and bad bacteria.
You can think of your gut microbiome like a rainforest. When the balance is thrown off by stress, health conditions (like hypothyroidism), perimenopause, or a poor diet, your body sends up “smoke signals” to let you know it’s struggling. These signals can look like:
The goal of an anti-inflammatory diet is two-fold: to lower existing inflammation and to avoid contributing to more inflammation. It’s about eating more of the good stuff and less of the damaging stuff. And helping you make this an easy, sustainable lifestyle is exactly what I do!
The benefits of eating this way are far-reaching and go way beyond just weight loss. While an anti-inflammatory diet isn’t specifically designed for shedding pounds, it is a fantastic “side effect” of the approach.
When you remove inflammatory foods and focus on nutrient-dense options, your body naturally sheds excess water, which reduces bloating. Plus, as you begin to absorb more nutrients from the food you eat, your body will have more energy to function as it’s meant to.
In fact, research shows that anti-inflammatory eating can support:
Ultimately, this way of eating isn’t a temporary fix; it’s a foundation for long-term wellness and disease prevention.
An anti-inflammatory diet isn’t about restriction; it’s about abundance.
It’s about filling your plate with delicious, vibrant foods that nourish your body from the inside out. Your grocery cart should be full of whole foods in their most basic form, so shop the perimeter of the store and stick with fresh produce, meat, and fish.
This can be the harder part, but it’s essential to focus on progress over perfection. The goal isn’t to be a perfect eater, but to reduce your overall inflammatory load. Here are the main culprits to reduce or avoid:
I know all of this information might sound like a lot, but let’s build a plan for starting slow, because a “slow start builds strong roots”. If you try to overhaul everything at once, your nervous system will feel overwhelmed, and you’re more likely to fail.
This lifestyle is about progress, not perfection. The outdated “all-or-nothing” mindset is what keeps so many women stuck. One slip-up doesn’t ruin the whole day or week. It’s about tuning into your body and recognizing that you can still enjoy your favorite treats in moderation.
My 3-bite rule is a great way to enjoy a favorite dessert without feeling deprived or going overboard.
When you want a sweet treat, stick to the 3-bite rule: one bite tastes good, but leaves you wanting more. Two bites is satisfying, but you still want a little extra. Three bites (if you savor each one!) lets you feel like you’ve enjoyed the sweet treat, and maybe like you got away with something mischievous.
When it comes to social gatherings, focus on the people and the conversation, not just the food. The entire event doesn’t need to revolve around what you’re eating.
You can even have conversations with friends and family before a vacation or event, about your health and nutrition goals, so you don’t feel left out.
Remember, you are a healthy eater, not someone on a diet. It’s about nourishment, not restriction!
It’s too hard to eat this way with my family, but I want to try it for my perimenopause symptoms, and for weight loss. What are my options?
When done right (like the plan here), an anti-inflammatory diet should be effortless for busy, midlife moms. By using ingredients that you can easily find at your local grocery store, and time-saving methods for cooking and meal prep, you’ll quickly start to feel better—more energy, less brain fog, and lighter. The quick improvements will encourage you to keep going, for a lifetime of amazing health!
While an anti-inflammatory diet often involves removing gluten and dairy, it is also a powerful approach for adding in foods that support your body and reduce inflammation. An anti-inflammatory diet is more comprehensive and holistic than simply removing one or two food groups.
The goal is to reduce overall inflammation, so moderation is key. 1-2 cups of coffee is fine, but watch out for added sugars in your creamer. When it comes to alcohol, be aware of how it makes you feel. If you find yourself feeling bloated, sluggish, and struggling with brain fog, that might be a sign it’s time to reduce or limit your intake.
Yes! This isn’t a temporary fix, it’s a sustainable lifestyle. It’s about giving your body the nutrients it needs to thrive, which is beneficial at any age. (I even talk here about how this approach to nutrition can be extremely beneficial to kids).
Absolutely. While it’s not a traditional “weight loss diet,” losing weight is a common side effect of reducing inflammation and nourishing your body with whole foods. Plus, consistently eating an anti-inflammatory diet also helps with common perimenopause symptoms like joint pain, brain fog, and fatigue.
Many women feel a noticeable difference within the first week, especially in terms of reduced bloating and increased energy. You may even lose a few pounds right away! The longer you eat an anti-inflammatory diet, the longer you’ll feel the positive effects.
Eating all-organic isn’t required when it comes to an anti-inflammatory diet. By swapping out high sugar, highly processed foods for fresh produce and lean meats, you’ll notice a significant change in your health. If you’re looking for some budget friendly ways to do this, listen to this episode of The Family Fork podcast.
If you’re ready to stop feeling exhausted, frustrated, and stuck in less-than-ideal health, you don’t need a new diet. You need a new approach—one that works for your real life.
This isn’t about giving up your favorite foods or starting over every Monday. It’s about making small, consistent changes that lead to lasting results.
I am here to help you feel better, without the stress of trying to do it all on your own. The switch to an anti-inflammatory diet is one that will have far-reaching effects, to support your health for the rest of your life. It’s so worth it!